It's time to bite the bullet and make an effort to actually try out and find a cycling club.
You guys and gals seem friendly from what i've seen so whats the worst that can happen.
I am quite/very shy which for a mid 30's man is not good and sometimes people may perceive it as rudeness etc but it just takes me a while to get to know people before i can open up.
I've just signed up for your introduction to club cycling on 14th Aug as it's been too many years since i last rode in a group
Fingers crossed it works out.
Hopefully nothing conspires against me and i'll see you soon.